Things You Should Never DO in a Long
Distance Relationship
Being in a long distance relationship is a lot
more difficult than being in a relationship
with someone whom you meet every day.
You need to put in a lot of efforts and have
patience to keep your relationship going.
Physical presence of your partner does make
a lot of difference as you have someone who
constantly ignites the fire of love within you.
When you stay at a distance from your
partner, you do feel a little lonely at times
and wonder whether it is worth the pain. The
truth is that if you really want it to work, it
will work. Having said that, there are a few
things you must steer clear of when you are
in a long distance relationship
Here are a few things you should never do in
a long distance relationship:
1. Calling all the time
You tend to miss your partner when they are
away from you. You want to talk to them and
call them multiple times. While it is
imperative for you to check on your partner’s
well being, you must understand that they
must be busy with a lot of things in a day
hence, if you call them all the time they could
get disturbed.
2. No response
As you both cannot meet each other in
person, you need to interact through
messages, emails or phone calls. When your
partner sends you a message, they expect a
reply from you. If you do not reply to their
message, they could get anxious and worry
about you. Also, not replying to someone’s
message makes you come across as an ill
mannered person. Even if you are busy with
something, reply as soon as you manage to
find some free time
3. Being clingy
You need to put more effort in a long
distance relationship than you need to in a
normal relationship. But, that does not mean
you will cling to your partner all the time.
Calling them or texting them a couple of
times a day is fine but there must be a limit
to your calls and messages. You must not
buzz them to the point of annoying them
4. High expectations
When you are in a relationship with someone
who lives in the same city as you do, you
expect them to surprise you regularly and do
things for you to make you feel special. You
have to be little realistic with your
expectations when you are in a long distance
relationship. You must not forget that your
partner is far away from you and they cannot
do the things that perhaps our friends’
partners do for them. That does not mean
they love you any less.
5. Not sorting out issues
Every couple goes through their set of
issues. You can have some trouble or fight
with your partner even when you are far away
from them. In a long distance relationship,
sorting out issue becomes all the more
important as you both are at considerable
distance from each other and if you do not
resolve your differences, it could lead to a
breakup. When you are physically close to
each other, you can afford not to talk to your
partner for some time as you are upset. But,
doing such a thing in a long distance
relationship can cost you dearly.
6. Being unavailable
Switching off your phone or not checking
your mail for a long time is not advisable for
you if you are in a long distance relationship.
You must understand that as you are away
from your partner they would want to know
about your whereabouts and talk to you a
little more than they need to. There could be
an emergency as well. You must always be
available for your partner.
7. Not reaching out as much
As you are not physically close to each other,
you must do your best to ensure that your
partner does not feel your absence in their
life. While it is not always possible to call
them, whenever you call them up do it. If you
are very busy send them a text message. But
if time permits, you must not refrain from
calling them. The sound of your voice cannot
be substituted with smiley’s. You must make
use of the best possible communication
facility available for you at a particular
moment.
8. Lying about something
Even if you lie to your partner for an
inconsequential reason, if they find about it in
the future, they are going to lose their trust in
you. They will think you could be lying to
them for various reasons and there are
several things you hide from them. Just one
lie can destroy your relationship forever. You
must be honest and truthful to your partner
and keep them in loop about everything that
you do.
You will often find people discouraging you
from getting in to a long distance
relationship. Not just some random people
but your friends, too, will advise you against
getting into one. There is no doubt that a
long distance relationship can prove to be
tough to be in but with some plain and
simple rules, you can make it work. Even
people who are in normal relationships have
their share of problems. Consider distance to
be a challenge and be strong enough to sail
through it. After all, your love is bigger than
all these trivial issues.
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